Ok well this is a bad situation to be in.
First first of all you shouldn't have kissed her if you knew she had a boyfriend. That should really make you second guess if you could ever really trust her not if you guys where to get in a relationship. Because if she did it to him, what would stop her from doing it to you. Most people say "ohhh no, im different". When really fact is most the time there not, it just feels good to tell yourself that. So you should really think about that, and if gettting her is really worth it in the first place.
But anyways, there are ways to get a girl out of an relationship. And into a new one. But she's got to have feelings with/for you, and it seems like she does, if she's willing to cheat. [although, i do not support cheating in any WAY, SHAPE, or FORM]. This could either be easy or hard depending on your situation.
I've got answers for both side.
1. She might just be using you for attention she's not getting from him. And she knows you will always be there when he breaks her down. Although she really has no intentions of really breaking up w/ her bf. Even if she tells you she does. Your kinda like a a backup plan, second choice ext. If you continue still doing things with her while she's going out with him and she still wont break up him then it's time you move on. You deserve better then her. She will probably tell you every excuse in the book to make you believe that she really cant break up with him. For Example here's a few
-He's going threw a lot right now, i cant break up with just yet.
-I don't know how to break up with him.
-Ohhh i was just about to do it then he got really sad and i couldn't
Trust me, us girls get creative. Where just as good as any guy out there when it comes to lies. Never underestimate a female.
2. Sorry to tell you this but this would be the "un-common" answer. She really does like you, and is going to break up with her boyfriend. But she's just wondering if the trade off is really better then what she already has, but she will come around and in the end chose you. I hope your willing to wait.
Or this chick may just be a player. You need to cross your judgement.
[But honestly cheating never settles with me, so heres a few "personal" words from Mia LiAnne, MOVE ON. no one deserves a cheater, she isnt worth waiting for if she's gonna cheat. Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. Sorry, but its the truth. No one deserves that kind of pain]
